Sunday, March 20, 2011

Lisa's Logbook - March 20

Current Mood: Happy

Outside: Cloudy, WINDY, and 43.

Wearing: jeans, pink shirt, grey sweatshirt, yesterday's socks, makeup (and my hair looks GREAT - must have been Christy's water!)

Tunes: listened to Wives and Daughters by Elizabeth Gaskell again this week

Kids Are: 1 is on the computer and texting, 1 is playing PS2, 1 is upstairs, and 1 is at a birthday party

Hubby Is: resting and talking about going to work on the yard

Made Me Laugh: Picked up Suzy from a friend's house last weekend and told her I had missed her. Her response? "I didn't think about you!" LOL

Made Me Sad: listening to a sad song and realizing that I have made someone feel that way

Made Me Drool: an abundance of tasty food this weekend - so much we didn't even get to try it all!

Blessings: Found a framed Monet print of chrysanthemums at the thrift store; learned to crochet through the kindness of my sister's friend; spent the weekend with my mom and sisters.

Reading: Wives and Daughters by Elizabeth Gaskell and Madame Tussaud: A Novel of the French Revolution by Michelle Moran

Watching: Castle Season 2, Secretariat, Gifted Hands: The Ben Carson Story, and part of Ocean's 11

Considering: buying a better camera off craigslist instead of getting a Kindle

Working On: getting back to counting calories and exercising

Accomplishments: Regency outfits are DONE! (well, there'll be some tweaking here and there); Also, I learned to CROCHET!

Lessons: Spring Break this week

Agenda: Working 5 hours M-Th, karate, movie day, soccer meeting, portrait session, REGENCY BALL

Pic: Pictures from the gymnastics gym. We are done there for the time being.



Sunday, March 13, 2011

Lisa's Logbook - March 13

Current Mood: Bleary

Outside: Cloudy and 33.

Wearing: long johns, wool socks, robe

Tunes: listened to Wives and Daughters by Elizabeth Gaskell this week (20 chapters out of 61), Daft Punk Tron soundtrack

Kids Are: 2 are asleep (I think) and 1 is upstairs playing and 1 is at church with a friend

Hubby Is: listening to the radio

Made Me Laugh: watching Psych with David. (Thank you, Netflix Instant and Xbox Live!)

Made Me Sad: My friend has had a very bad week. Her ex was mean to her. But worse? Her sister said things that were just plain cruel.

Made Me Drool: The grinder I had at Mancino's. DELISH! And I wish I'd eaten the chocolate cupcake I saw in their dessert case. It made me drool too.

Blessings: David has his Level 1 learner's permit! And the boy can drive!

Reading: Wives and Daughters by Elizabeth Gaskell and The Sherlockian by Graham Moore

Watching: Psych, The Adjustment Bureau, Morning Glory

Considering: purchasing furniture (craigslist) and how we'll get it home

Working On: the last parts of our Regency costumes.

Accomplishments: The yearbook is done, proofed, and ordered! Made David a waistcoat and a cravat (such as it is), Trimmed Em's dress with pearls and added the second skirt. Just a little bit left for her dress.

Lessons: Nothing new this week, I don't think. We're pretty much in a groove.

Agenda: Lessons, working 5 hours M-F, gymnastics, co-op, Sister Weekend!

Pic: David in most of his costume. Still need the waistcoat, cravat, and steampunk accessories. We're getting there. I'm almost ready to photograph me and Emily.

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

How We Do... History

Here is the third in a series of posts on how we do each of our academic subjects. (The first was on Bible study and the second was Math.)

I never liked history when I was in school. I didn't see the big picture until I was in college. Until I took a History of Civilization class, I didn't see any of it as connected. Because of this, I always wanted to teach my children history chronologically.

But for a long time, I couldn't really find a curriculum that did this, so we floundered around in Ancient Egypt and the American Revolution. I figured that at least if we had an interest in some part of history, that the love of learning about it would carry over to history in general. And I actually think that is a fine approach.

But, a few years ago, when a friend showed me her brand new copy of Mystery of History, I knew in a flash that was what I had been waiting for. Currrently there are 3 volumes in the series, with a fourth (and final) volume being finished

Why? Well, it's strengths are:
  • Chronological
  • Christian
  • Conversational
  • Creative

We have worked our way through Volumes 1 and 2. For those two volumes, I led the lessons, reading them aloud to my children, and then doing a project once a week or so to extend the learning. I don't really pay any attention to the tests. For those volumes, we did a timeline and we did the learning cards for volume 1 only.

As we progressed, I stripped the history lessons to exactly what we wanted. I don't want our history to be a bunch of memorization. I want it to be something that whets the children's appetites for learning more about history, as well as something that allows them to see each event in relation to a larger picture. It's learning a worldview and a context, rather than memorizing dates and names. (Note: I am not opposed to memorization. I just want more than that.)

For Volume 3, however, I needed to do something differently. As I have mentioned before, since I am working 20+ hours a week, I need to streamline our curriculum. So, David is "teaching" history this year by reading the lessons aloud to his siblings. He is gaining practice in reading aloud (which is something he needs to work on) and in teaching. Is it the most ideal way to teach history? Probably not. Are they continuing on toward my goal for them? Yes, they are.

What would I like to change or add? I would like to return to doing the projects. For MOH3, I would need the teacher book. The publisher changed the format for Volume 3. Instead of one volume with the info and the resources, the books were separated into a full color textbook and a separate teacher volume. I should probably order that and add that back into our history lessons. I think that adds a richness we have been missing.

Volume 4 (the final MOH) will probably not be ready in time for us to use it when we finish Volume 3. So, we will probably take the time in between to do an in-depth study of American History. Or maybe we will do a year of Geography since David already did a survey of American History. Our options are open.

Sunday, March 6, 2011

Lisa's Logbook - March 6

Current Mood: Tired

Outside: Dark, icy and cold

Wearing: Jeans, black long sleeved tee, short sleeved striped sweater, slippers, and a big grey sweatshirt

Tunes: listened to Persuasion by Jane Austen this week, and David played some music for me from his new fav band - Abney Park (steampunk sound)

Kids Are: 3 are asleep (I think) and 1 is banging around upstairs working on some computers

Hubby Is: Asleep

Made Me Laugh: Bowling with Emily and her friends

Made Me Sad: hearing of the tragic accident Friday morning that took the life of a local high school girl and injured two more.

Made Me Drool: Sally posted the "It's Raining Men" video. Yes, that always makes me drool. :-)

Blessings: My daughter is FOURTEEN. And Bob bought me a sewing machine.

Reading: Jane Austen Ruined My Life by Beth Pattillo and Wives and Daughters by Elizabeth Gaskell

Watching: Blast from the Past, Ice Castles (the new one; but the DVD messed up so I missed the end), Psych

Considering: Regency hairstyles for all of us. Em and I will wear our hair up. Emily will probably have pearls in hers. David is gonna need a haircut but he's resisting. He had agreed to Mr. Elton's haircut, but conveniently "forgot" that he did so. (That's Mr. Elton in all these pix. And if you have forgotten, David's hair is that same color now.) And no, neither Emily nor I will be wearing our hair like Harriet Smith, the girl Mr. Elton is advising on her painting. lol What do you think of Mr. Elton's hair? The Austentatious girls like it a lot and are turning the screws in hopes of pressuring David into honoring his promise. lololol

Working On: the last parts of our Regency costumes. And the yearbook. Still.

Accomplishments: Driving home tonight - it was the worst winter drive I can remember. And I was not even expecting bad weather. Thankfully we made it home safely.

Lessons: Going to start Suzy on Draw-Write-Now just to give her something to practice writing and drawing. She needs something independent she can work on when I'm busy. I bought the 8 volume set from someone online for a song.

Agenda: Lessons, working 5 hours M-F, support group, field trip, dentist

Pic: This space heater is the reason we didn't freeze while waiting (2 weeks) for our furnace part. It keeps the downstairs pretty warm, actually.


Wednesday, March 2, 2011

How We Do... Math

Here is the second in a series of posts on how we do each of our academic subjects. (The first was on Bible study.)


For several years, we used Math-U-See, which we all liked very much. However, my work hours this year required that I pare my schedule down to the bare bones. I found that grading four math papers every day was one thing that I would like to be able to delegate somehow.


So, I went looking for a curriculum that would grade the children's work for me and keep track of their scores. After doing a little research, I settled on Switched-on Schoolhouse for several reasons. First, it is affordable, especially when found used. Second, it keeps grades and allows me a lot of leeway in how I assign the lessons and set the parameters of the program. Third, it is a computer-based program and the kids enjoy that.


For the most part, the program has worked as expected. Because we moved from Math-U-See, which covers topics in a less traditional order, the three younger kids had never done certain topics, such as fractions. Because one of those three children struggles a lot with math, that child is not working at grade level. (I think this child could be diagnosed with dyscalculia, if I ever thought that was necessary.)


My oldest has always found math quite intuitive and he is doing Geometry (Math 1000) this year. I gave him a lot of input on deciding which curriculum to use and he told me it didn't matter to him. He has found the adjustment to SOS quite easy and basically teaches it to himself. If he is stumped, he usually looks for a video on youtube to learn the concept.

The other three need a lot more help. A lesson does include a written explanation but none of the 3 read it carefully as a matter of course. I often have to go through the lesson with the student, or re-explain the concept after many problems are wrong. Because Math-U-See has a video that explains each concept, I think the children are used to that visual approach. It's not really fair to expect the children to teach themselves their math, I suppose, no matter how much I would love that. So, I've reconciled myself to the necessity of explaining math concepts. But don't expect that most children will teach themselves math with SOS because I don't think that's going to happen. For me, the tradeoff in having the grading done for me is worth it.


My youngest is not reading fluently, so the transition to SOS has been the hardest for her. She is in 3rd grade and is doing SOS Math 3, but the reading is beyond her especially when she is trying hard to figure out math. This difficulty requires that someone be near her to help her with the reading, or else she'll just get the problems wrong. She doesn't find the math difficult, just the reading. She has recently asked to go back to her math book (which I assume means MUS) but this is not going to happen for her.

Oh, and the spelling! That's a problem for everyone. If the user doesn't enter a word like SOS expects, it's wrong. The teacher can (and I did) set the spelling penalty to be more lenient, but it's still more strict than I would be on a workbook page. That's good though. They're learning to do things to the standards of others, which they will have to do at some point.


Now that the kids and I understand the intricacies of the program, they are doing better with it. I have been too lax about requiring the amount of time needed though, so they are not as far as I would like. Add to that the fact that I require at least an 80% score (70% for the student with math difficulties); anything lower requires a do-over. So, they have had quite a few quizzes and tests to retake.

Lately, I've been requiring 2 lessons per day (with at least an 80% score, though I allow some exceptions for the student with the mathematics disorder). Since we have a 4 day week, this works out well for us in making up for past laxness and redoing lessons that are not acceptable.

Is this a perfect way to teach math? No. I freely admit that. However, this is the least stressful for me - a working mom who homeschools. I doubt that whatever method was used in a public school would be perfect either. So, if they are progressing, and they are, I am pleased. I actually wish I'd switched several years ago, when it became clear that being a homeschool mom with a job was my reality.

And what about Math-U-See? I still like it very much. If I were the mom who didn't have to spend half her day in other commitments, I would not have switched.

Sunday, February 27, 2011

Lisa's Logbook - February 27

Current Mood: Optimistic

Outside: Overcast and grey and snowy

Wearing: black pants, flowered brocade stretch shirt, dark socks, boots, makeup

Tunes: still listening to Clara and Mr. Tiffany by Susan Vreeland; will finish this week and move on to Persuasion by Jane Austen

Kids Are: 1 is sleeping, 2 are watching Planet Earth on DVD, 1 is brushing her teeth

Hubby Is: asleep (last night he volunteered at the homeless shelter)

Made Me Laugh: book club always makes me laugh. But lately, laughing sends me into gales of COUGHING which isn't so fun.

Made Me Sad: Missing so much work last week; knowing it makes my paycheck smaller

Made Me Drool: the spread of food at book club last night! We outdid ourselves!

Blessings: having two free tickets to Cirque Shanghai today - Suzy and I loved it!

Reading: still reading GOVERNESS: The Lives and Times of the Real Jane Eyres by Ruth Brandon.

Watching: the second half of the Emma starring Romola Garai, a couple eps of Psych, My Girlfriend's Boyfriend (a cute rom-com on Netflix Instant), Northanger Abbey

Considering: going to the doctor

Working On: finishing the SOF yearbook - almost done!

Accomplishments: Do I have any?

Lessons: Starting David on Plato Chemistry this week

Agenda: Lessons, working 5 hours M-F, gymnastics, co-op, David drivers ed make up classes, other stuff too and I can't think of it all

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Sunday, February 20, 2011

Lisa's Logbook - February 20

Current Mood: Miserable (working on the 4th day of being sick)

Outside: Overcast and grey, with a Winter Storm Warning for tonight into tomorrow.

Wearing: pajamas, robe, wool socks, slippers, heating pad, blanket

Tunes: been listening to Clara and Mr. Tiffany by Susan Vreeland

Kids Are: 1 is sleeping, 1 is upstairs doing something, 1 is whining she's bored, 1 is in the kitchen

Hubby Is: working on the furnace (again)

Made Me Laugh: watching Lucille Ball on a comedy highlights DVD. I need to introduce my kids to I Love Lucy.

Made Me Sad: watching my kids suffer with fevers and sickness in the last week

Made Me Drool: the bag of bumpy Nerds jellybeans Bob brought me

Blessings: a great dance class with my Austentatious class

Reading: Reading GOVERNESS: The Lives and Times of the Real Jane Eyres by Ruth Brandon. Just finished Secrets to the Grave by Tami Hoag.

Watching: the Emma starring Kate Beckinsale, the first half of the Emma starring Romola Garai, the 3rd episode of Sherlock Holmes,

Considering: that I stayed healthy until I went off my sugar fast....

Working On: getting better

Accomplishments: taking care of 4 sick kids in one week

Lessons: Last week was sort of a wash since everyone got sick at some point or other. Gonna try again this week with the same lessons.

Agenda: Lessons, working 4 hours M-F, soccer meeting, taking Suzy to Cirque Shanghai, book club

Pic: Can't upload now, will try later.

Sunday, February 13, 2011

Lisa's Logbook - February 13

Current Mood: Wistful

Outside: It's a balmy 43 out there. And there are PUDDLES! lol

Wearing: Jeans, black long sleeved thin tee, blue fleece pullover, socks, slippers.

Tunes: All audiobooks except while driving - mostly Austen, but also some Gabaldon.

Kids Are: 1 is upstairs, 1 is driving a car, 2 are on the computer.

Hubby Is: napping

Made Me Laugh: They showed this in church today. (Although I think maybe they edited it. lol)


Made Me Sad: I hate thinking about sad things. Death is sad. The end of things is sad.

Made Me Drool: Choosing which chocolate I was going to eat for Valentine's Day. Ended up with Lindt truffles. Mmmmm....

Blessings: My son attending a worship retreat this weekend and coming home with the desire to please God in practical ways. Also, my husband being able to fix a furnace part BEFORE it broke. (heard it making a bad noise)

Reading: Still skimming through The Unwritten Rules of Friendship: Simple Strategies to Help Your Child Make Friends by Eileen Kennedy-Moore. Also reading GOVERNESS: The Lives and Times of the Real Jane Eyres by Ruth Brandon.

Watching: the Emma starring Gwyneth Paltrow and Jeremy Northam, The A-Team (new one), a couple Psych episodes, Gamer (with Gerard Butler), and The Madness of King George (Rupert Everett, Helen Mirren, and Nigel Hawthorne as the King).

Considering: a portrait session when our costumes are done. Also still deciding what to do with those lovely pasta bowls. Need to decide! Augh!

Working On: still Regency costumes and the SOF yearbook. Also my Emma lesson for co-op this Friday.

Accomplishments: Looked at a huge spread of goodies at the Valentine bowling party and didn't have any sweets - ate sausage, cheese, and fruit, and some yummy bean dip. My sugar fast is now over, so hopefully an upcoming accomplishment will be that I can eat sugar in moderation. lol Also, I modified the neckline on Emily's gown and sewed on the overskirt.

Lessons: It's pretty much the same old thing here.

Agenda: Lessons, working 4 hours M-F, David has drivers' training 1 or 2 nights, gymnastics, movie night, co-op. Trying to add exercise back into the schedule.

Pic: Emily took this photo tonight. The sunset was AMAZING!


Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Working and Homeschooling

I was asked to share some thoughts at a homeschool support meeting on the topic of working and homeschooling and I thought I'd publish them here.

What are the ages of your kids?
Currently they are 8, 11, 13, and 16. When I started working in 2000, they were almost 1, 3 and almost 6. My youngest wasn't born yet. So really the entire time I have had school-age kids, I have worked at least part-time, save for a few months after my last one was born.

What kind of work do you do, schedule do you keep? Outside the home or in?
I work out of my home 4-5 hours a day on the computer. I have to work at least 4 hours a day Monday through Friday. I try to work 1-2 hours before we begin our lessons for the day and fit in the rest in the afternoon and evening.

Other work I have done while homeschooling includes: direct sales home parties (selling Usborne books), teaching part time (during school day, afternoons, evenings), and full time factory work on 2nd shift.

Who stays with your children while you work?
The older two watch over the younger two now, but when my kids were younger, I did a number of different child care arrangements. When #3 was a baby, I arranged my schedule so my husband could watch the kids. After he was injured when #4 was born, I needed to rely on other people somewhat, but I never paid for child care. Since I work at home now, I am always here when I am working.

What sorts of things do you have for your children to do while you are working? (How do you keep them occupied?)
Nowadays they occupy themselves, though I do have gaming systems for them which I always thought we'd never have. They read and play Legos and play outside and play in their rooms. They also do a lot on the computer; we have 2 desktops and 2 laptops for them to use. They do their schoolwork and chores. When they were younger, I worked my schedule around them and they had a caregiver when I was not able to be there.

How do you get schoolwork done? Is your schoolwork independent or require your time?
I try to keep my mornings available for them and require math and reading/literature/phonics to be done during this time. They do a lot more on their own than I imagine a lot of families require. For instance, the oldest reads history aloud to the other 3 and I am not involved at all. We switched to SOS Math so that I would not have the burden of grading math homework. They also do quite a bit online – Livemocha foreign language, typing.... #3 is reading a science book aloud to #4.

How do you get household tasks completed? How do you organize these tasks (if you organize at all!)
I am very organized with household tasks. We have a job chart that tells everyone what to do that day – everything from meal prep to cleaning the bathroom to cleaning the microwave. The kids do all the meal clean up, some of the meal prep, almost all of the household cleaning, and folding their own laundry. I change this chart once a year. The jobs rotate – weekly now, but we have done daily rotation up until now.

What do you do well as a working mom? What do you struggle with the most?
I am great at organization and delegation as well as at protecting my personal time. I am not great at planning meals, though I go in spurts. I also tend to lean more toward the relaxed side of homeschooling, which as they get older may not be in their best interests. So, I struggle with the balance between teacher-led and child-led learning. I also spend a minimal amount of time on my house and almost never entertain.

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I want to add that I am very blessed to have the job I have now - I have the flexibility to work whatever hours I want, as long as they add up to 4-5 in a day; I make good money for a work-at-home online position and I am good at it. My kids want to remain at home or else they probably would have gone to traditional school long ago. And I am blessed to have a husband who has supported our efforts and pitched in as much as he can.

Sunday, February 6, 2011

Lisa's Logbook - February 6

Current Mood: Ambitious

Outside: Overcast and snowy. Piles and piles of snow!

Wearing: Black dress pants, a dressy ruffly blouse in blacks and browns, white socks (because they're comfy!), and makeup. And I curled my hair!

Tunes: Haven't been listening this week to anything except Emma by Jane Austen. I'm almost done!

Kids Are: 1 is at a friend's house, 2 are talking in the living room while 1 of those reads the comics, and 1 is upstairs

Hubby Is: napping

Made Me Laugh: Making James laugh by ALMOST tickling him, but not quite. It was hilarious!

Made Me Sad: that there are no more Firefly episodes for me to watch. I guess I will have to watch the rest of Castle after all, but it's just not the same. :-)

Made Me Drool: a recipe I saw for chimi-cheesecake, a la Applebees. I will be making this next week!

Blessings: Sitting in church today with my good friend Donna!

Reading: Emma (audiobook) by Jane Austen and I just finished Me and Mr. Darcy by Alexandra Potter. I am also skimming through The Unwritten Rules of Friendship: Simple Strategies to Help Your Child Make Friends by Eileen Kennedy-Moore and also reading through Reading Reflex: The Foolproof Phono-Graphix Method for Teaching Your Child to Read by Carmen McGuinness.

Watching: Watched the rest of the episodes of Firefly and then followed it up with the movie Serenity. David introduced me to Psych, and we watched the 1st two episodes of the BBC Sherlock (which is GREAT!). And I saw Dilemma at the movie theater last weekend.

Considering: used furniture purchases on craigslist; looking for 2 recliners and a couch

Working On: the Seeds of Faith yearbook - wanna help???

Accomplishments: Did the taxes - and I think this might be the earliest I've EVER gotten them done.

Lessons: Planning to start David on Plato Chemistry as soon as the group buy goes through, probably 2 weeks from now.

Agenda: Lessons, working 4 hours M-F, David has drivers' training 3 nights, rollerskating day, Valentine bowling party, and a support group meeting. Trying to add exercise back into the schedule.

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