"I am, I can, I ought, I will" -- Charlotte Mason
"Sow a thought and you reap an act; sow an act and you reap a habit; sow a habit and you reap a character; sow a character and you reap a destiny." --Erasmus.
If your kids are anything like mine, they occasionally need a little character training. Just from time to time. (like from 7am til 9pm, lol)
Here is a tool that may work for you: Free Character / Habit Training Cards
You can download a .pdf on that webpage that includes a template for customizable training cards. The page also includes tips and ideas for using the template with your family.
This is a very Charlotte Mason-kind of thing to do, as she advocates habit training.
Give it a try. Come back and tell me how it worked. Maybe I'll have tried it myself by then!